@Anna — I would respond by saying it’s only by your choosing do you let the past control you today and tomorrow. As LJ mentions, and as I state earlier in the comments, the past influences where we are today, OF COURSE! :)

The past has taken us to the present moment, but the intent of this piece is to say that if we hang on to the past and it prohibits us from moving forward in the present moment (and on behalf of tomorrow) that we are doign ourselves a disservice.

Disagree whole heartedly.

Our EMOTIONAL past doesn’t have consequence on our present lives, however, decisions I made as long as 5 years ago (failing to finish high school, not going to college soon, having a young pregnancy, and moving across the country twice) are now limiting and controlling how I live my life now.

It’s never to late to try and change things, and we can take control now, but that doesn’t go against the fact that the past does and will continue to control us.

I believe we must be grateful to our past and not blame it. The choices we made are what has brought us to where we are now. The lessons were necessary and growth is not designed to be comfortable.

I completly agree with this passage.

Thank you for the compliment and recommendation. I’ve actually come across Kundera’s book before, either seeing it on the bookshelf or checking it out online, but have yet to read it. Thanks again!