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		<pubDate>Mon, 21 Mar 2011 14:05:44 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Dave Ursillo</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[<p><em>Defiance is but one option: a choice, a decision, an attitude.</em></p>
<p>We rear defiant heads as children, testing the waters of reprisal and punishment from parents and teachers.</p>
<p>We live and breathe defiance in our teenage angst, questioning everyone and everything to the Nth degree.</p>
<p>But then we reel it in. We slow down. We largely stop defying, and instead passively melt into life-circumstances that victimize our days and years with blatant disregard for our simple wishes of tranquility and earnest joy.</p>
<h3><em>Defiance is but one option. </em></h3>
<p>But perhaps, just perhaps, your human spirit &#8212; the brilliant, unbridled stallion confined &#8230;</p>]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><em>Defiance is but one option: a choice, a decision, an attitude.</em></p>
<p>We rear defiant heads as children, testing the waters of reprisal and punishment from parents and teachers.</p>
<p>We live and breathe defiance in our teenage angst, questioning everyone and everything to the Nth degree.</p>
<p>But then we reel it in. We slow down. We largely stop defying, and instead passively melt into life-circumstances that victimize our days and years with blatant disregard for our simple wishes of tranquility and earnest joy.</p>
<h3><em>Defiance is but one option. </em></h3>
<p>But perhaps, just perhaps, your human spirit &#8212; the brilliant, unbridled stallion confined within your skin that longs to break free &#8212; needs our defiance to survive.</p>
<p>To unleash your potential, to thrive, to live from within most truly and invoke your spirit&#8217;s truest life-purpose&#8230; <strong>perhaps defiance is an utter necessity.</strong></p>
<p>The spirit that defies is that which remains strongest, most intact and healthily unshakable. The comfort of conformity dictates a methodical pace toward the grave. Idle minds tell us that things &#8220;are&#8221; because they &#8220;ought to be&#8221; this way. Our heart wonders, <em>why?<br />
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<p>What, today, does your heart question?</p>
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		<title>This is Renegadeism: Live, Defy, Believe, Thrive</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 04 Jun 2010 16:49:46 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Dave Ursillo</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[<p><em>&#8220;March on. Do not tarry. To go forward is to move toward perfection. March on, and fear not the thorns, or the sharp stones on life&#8217;s path.&#8221;</em> ~Kahlil Gibran</p>
<p>The word &#8220;Renegade&#8221; is derived from the medieval Latin word <em>renegatus</em> &#8212; the perfect participle of  <em>renego</em>, meaning &#8220;deny.&#8221;</p>
<p>Here on <a title="http://www.daveursillo.com/" href="http://www.daveursillo.com/" target="_self">DaveUrsillo.com</a>, &#8220;<a title="http://www.daveursillo.com/tag/renegadeism/" href="http://www.daveursillo.com/tag/renegadeism/" target="_self">Renegadeism</a>&#8221; is an unwaveringly positive and defiant attitude embodied by ordinary men and women across the globe who consider themselves to be distinctively different than the masses: we who are &#8220;dreamers&#8221; and &#8220;believers,&#8221; who strive to be achievers of a bigger goal &#8212; of a &#8230;</p>]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><em>&#8220;March on. Do not tarry. To go forward is to move toward perfection. March on, and fear not the thorns, or the sharp stones on life&#8217;s path.&#8221;</em> ~Kahlil Gibran</p>
<p>The word &#8220;Renegade&#8221; is derived from the medieval Latin word <em>renegatus</em> &#8212; the perfect participle of  <em>renego</em>, meaning &#8220;deny.&#8221;</p>
<p>Here on <a title="http://www.daveursillo.com/" href="http://www.daveursillo.com/" target="_self">DaveUrsillo.com</a>, &#8220;<a title="http://www.daveursillo.com/tag/renegadeism/" href="http://www.daveursillo.com/tag/renegadeism/" target="_self">Renegadeism</a>&#8221; is an unwaveringly positive and defiant attitude embodied by ordinary men and women across the globe who consider themselves to be distinctively different than the masses: we who are &#8220;dreamers&#8221; and &#8220;believers,&#8221; who strive to be achievers of a bigger goal &#8212; of a significant purpose.</p>
<p>We dreamers who brandish the name &#8220;Renegade&#8221; live, defy, believe and thrive in what we love to do, in spite of the an increasingly cynical world that surrounds us. As Renegades, we deny convention for the sake of convention, deny mounting cynicism, and deny disbelief.</p>
<p>Under the name of  &#8220;Renegades&#8221; we brandish a <strong>determined and resolute mindset</strong> through which we individually engage in Self-Exploration, striving to explore who we truly are on the inside; better ourselves through intellectual growth and emotional exploration; become Self-Aware, realizing and coming to trust our constitution, unique gifts and talents; and develop ourselves to be the best men and women that we can be, for the sake of everyone around us. <a title="http://www.daveursillo.com/tag/renegadeism/" href="http://www.daveursillo.com/tag/renegadeism/" target="_self">Renegadeism</a> is about &#8220;believing&#8221; in defiance of naysayers and developing <a title="http://www.daveursillo.com/tag/self/" href="http://www.daveursillo.com/tag/self/" target="_self">the Self</a> on behalf of others. It&#8217;s really that simple.</p>
<h3>Renegadeism Begins with Self-Exploration</h3>
<p><a title="http://www.daveursillo.com/tag/human-potential/" href="http://www.daveursillo.com/tag/human-potential/" target="_self">Human potential</a> is uniquely unlimited. There is no restraint on what   creativity, imagination or love we may summon and possess. Within ourselves, we have an insurmountable potential to dream, believe and achieve&#8211;simply because we are human. What resides <strong>within us</strong> is all that we need to achieve anything we put our minds to. Historically-brilliant men and women&#8211;from Sun Tzu to <a title="http://www.daveursillo.com/tag/ralph-waldo-emerson/" href="http://www.daveursillo.com/tag/ralph-waldo-emerson/" target="_self">Ralph Waldo Emerson</a>, Benjamin Franklin, E.E. Cummings, Marcus Aurelius and the fourteenth Dalai Lama Tenzin Gyatso&#8211;have long espoused the merit and honest value of understanding the Individual and developing confidence and trust in one&#8217;s <a title="http://www.daveursillo.com/tag/self/" href="http://www.daveursillo.com/tag/self/" target="_self">Self</a> as an important <strong>starting point</strong> for the betterment of others.</p>
<p>We, the Renegades, willfully engage in the dedicated practice of <strong>Self-Exploration</strong>, or the examination and analysis of our unrealized spiritual and intellectual capacities&#8211;the unlimited potential that we each individually possess. Renegades place explicit <a title="http://www.daveursillo.com/tag/focus/" href="http://www.daveursillo.com/tag/focus/" target="_self">focus</a> and attention upon developing the  individual <a title="http://www.daveursillo.com/tag/self/" href="http://www.daveursillo.com/tag/self/" target="_self">Self</a> as a starting point for bigger and better things.  Through introspective exploration, we come to <strong>better understand</strong> our behaviors, our motivations, our personalities, our relationships,  and our lives. In other words, we become &#8220;self-aware.&#8221;</p>
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<h3>Self-Awareness leads to Self-Reliance</h3>
<p>Self-awareness is gaining and developing a new level of consciousness and an ongoing understanding of our personal traits, behaviors, abilities, talents, gifts and potential in life. By becoming better aware of who we are on the inside, Renegades forge a new sense of knowledge and understanding of <a title="http://www.daveursillo.com/tag/self/" href="http://www.daveursillo.com/tag/self/" target="_self">the Self</a>. Self-awareness lessens our natural tendencies to be<strong> insecure and self-conscious</strong>, because we understand our emotions and the motivations for our behaviors every day. Understanding one&#8217;s sense of Self and being less insecure ultimately reveals a new world of confidence and <a title="http://www.daveursillo.com/tag/peace-of-mind/" href="http://www.daveursillo.com/tag/peace-of-mind/" target="_self">peace of mind</a>; once achieved, a <a title="http://www.daveursillo.com/tag/renegade/" href="http://www.daveursillo.com/tag/renegade/" target="_self">Renegade</a> builds his or her own self-reliant temple, against which there is no cynicism, disbelief, or naysayer that can shake the dreamer and believer from achieving whatever he or she desires.</p>
<p>Achieving this level of confidence and <a title="http://www.daveursillo.com/tag/peace-of-mind/" href="http://www.daveursillo.com/tag/peace-of-mind/" target="_self">peace of mind</a>, we become self-reliant: our motivations come from deep within our hearts and souls. We realize that our actions, thoughts and behaviors are inherently pure and good for they stem from deep within our spirit. When our motivations come from within, we ultimately have little to ever <a title="http://www.daveursillo.com/tag/regret/" href="http://www.daveursillo.com/tag/regret/" target="_self">regret</a>. We are free to make mistakes and contradict ourselves, to learn and grow, because we are motivated by our hearts and souls and what is within us.</p>
<h3>Join the Ranks of the Renegades</h3>
<p><a title="http://www.daveursillo.com/tag/renegadeism/" href="http://www.daveursillo.com/tag/renegadeism/" target="_self">Renegadeism</a> begins with the choice of conscious self-exploration. Through the realization of our unlimited potential, we become self-aware. Through self-awareness and better understanding our gifts, strengths, abilities, passions and unique human potential; we gain a level of self-reliance, an unwavering source of motivation and trust that resides deeply within us and upon which any dream or goal can be achieved.</p>
<p>What it means to be a <strong>Renegade </strong>is as limitless as our human potential. <strong>Renegadeism</strong> is an open philosophy, not confined or restrained by traditional laws,  conventional rules or strict limitations. Renegadeism is open to  evolution and constant refinement<strong> with YOUR input, thoughts, and contributions.</strong> Renegadeism will  evolve, change, and strengthen as men and women like you join the <em>Ranks  of the Renegades </em>and share your opinions and ideas with me and <em>especially </em>with one another.</p>
<p>Today, to believe, it&#8217;s as if you have to be a <a title="http://www.daveursillo.com/tag/renegade/" href="http://www.daveursillo.com/tag/renegade/" target="_self">Renegade</a>. <strong>Are you among our Ranks?</strong></p>
<blockquote><p><strong>Step 1) </strong>Follow <a title="http://www.twitter.com/DaveUrsillo" href="http://www.twitter.com/DaveUrsillo" target="_blank">me</a> and the <a title="http://twitter.com/DaveUrsillo/ranks-of-the-renegades" href="http://twitter.com/DaveUrsillo/ranks-of-the-renegades" target="_blank"><em>Ranks of the Renegades</em> list</a> on <a title="http://www.twitter.com/DaveUrsillo" href="http://www.twitter.com/DaveUrsillo" target="_blank">Twitter</a> to connect with fellow Renegades</p>
<p><strong>Step 2) </strong>Connect with our community on the <a title="http://www.facebook.com/daveursillodotcom" href="http://www.facebook.com/daveursillodotcom" target="_blank">DaveUrsillo.com / Ranks of the Renegades Facebook Page</a></p>
<p><strong>Step 3) </strong>Blog, Tweet, Facebook and share <strong>your own</strong> Renegadeist efforts with fellow Renegades, friends, family, and strangers alike. Keep me and fellow Renegades in touch with what you&#8217;re working on, ideas you&#8217;re developing and what it means <em></em>Renegadeism means <em>to you.</em></p></blockquote>
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		<title>To Endure is Truly Noble</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 19 Apr 2010 00:00:13 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Dave Ursillo</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[<p><em>&#8220;Endurance is one of the most difficult disciplines, but it is to the one who endures that the final victory comes.&#8221; </em>~Buddha</p>
<p>Before we can overcome the challenges that lie before us, we must first survive the circumstances that preclude us from <a title="http://www.daveursillo.com/blog/i-am-a-millennial/" href="http://www.daveursillo.com/blog/i-am-a-millennial/" target="_self">flight</a>. Even for those who struggle to overcome and simply cannot, to endure is truly noble.</p>
<p>Striving to overcome the hurdles and difficulties of everyday life in order to follow one&#8217;s dreams and stay true to one&#8217;s   heart is an amazing feat and sets an admirable example that is worthy emulation.</p>
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><em>&#8220;Endurance is one of the most difficult disciplines, but it is to the one who endures that the final victory comes.&#8221; </em>~Buddha</p>
<p>Before we can overcome the challenges that lie before us, we must first survive the circumstances that preclude us from <a title="http://www.daveursillo.com/blog/i-am-a-millennial/" href="http://www.daveursillo.com/blog/i-am-a-millennial/" target="_self">flight</a>. Even for those who struggle to overcome and simply cannot, to endure is truly noble.</p>
<p>Striving to overcome the hurdles and difficulties of everyday life in order to follow one&#8217;s dreams and stay true to one&#8217;s   heart is an amazing feat and sets an admirable example that is worthy emulation.</p>
<p>However, for those who fight and struggle just to survive &#8212; those   who, though encumbered by circumstance, dream still &#8212; the feat of their   endurance is truly noble, humbling, and awe-inspiring. After all, in order to reach a level in our lives where we can truly thrive, first, we must survive.</p>
<h3>Heroes who Strive to Simply Survive</h3>
<p>Many of the <a title="http://www.daveursillo.com/category/self-help/" href="http://www.daveursillo.com/category/self-help/" target="_self">self help</a> and <a title="http://www.daveursillo.com/category/personal-excellence/" href="http://www.daveursillo.com/category/personal-excellence/" target="_self">personal excellence</a> pieces I offer here on  DaveUrsillo.com espouse the merit and value of pursuing one&#8217;s dreams in spite  of the challenges that impede them; the merit of following one&#8217;s heart in spite of when logic  tells us not to or whatever the status quo dictates; and the advantages of utilizing one&#8217;s passions as great asset to our individual development.</p>
<p>I not only enjoy writing different <a title="http://www.daveursillo.com/category/self-help/" href="http://www.daveursillo.com/category/self-help/" target="_blank">self help</a> and <a title="http://www.daveursillo.com/category/personal-excellence/" href="http://www.daveursillo.com/category/personal-excellence/" target="_self">personal excellence</a> pieces &#8212; which,  I hope, can serve my readers and visitors with some motivation and inspiration every day &#8212; but  I often need to read them myself in order to maximize my motivation during those days  and weeks when the strenuous process of striving to attain your dreams  feels particularly more difficult, arduous and occasionally aimless.</p>
<p>That said, I sometimes neglect the merit and courage of those who     struggle and sacrifice just to make ends meet; who, in spite of all that     they sacrifice, never stop dreaming. For that reason, I wish to     address the nobility and courage of these unspoken heroes.</p>
<h3>To Endure is Truly Noble</h3>
<p>Striving to overcome for the sake of our dreams and life goals is beautiful and admirable. But there are many men and women who, in spite of all of their efforts, simply cannot overcome: enduring is a courageous feat, itself. These men and women are life&#8217;s soldiers. Although they struggle to merely survive, they endure still, if only in hopes that their struggles and sacrifices will allow a better set of circumstances for their children who  follow them, and perhaps allow them to pursue their sincerest dreams and goals in life.</p>
<p>We dreamers who have been given the opportunities and  advantages to sincerely help others must take these lessons to heart.  After all, no one can really thrive if they cannot make ends meet and simply  survive, first.   Survival is always the first step. The act of enduring  is what helps facilitates our ability to strive and overcome any array  of circumstances in our lives that prohibits us from taking flight and  soaring onward to horizons of which that we dream.</p>
<p>In this life, whether we are endeavoring to thrive in life or simply struggling to survive, to endure is truly noble. And for those who endure, the final victory will surely be achieved; whether it is the victory that we had set out to win or not.</p>
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